to relax her? A benzodiazipine, like xanax, but the opposite of apprehension isn't relaxation. I think cocaine is just the bees knees for chemsex (and so do the women I know). Coaine boosts someones libido, but psychologically it lowers inhibitions without depressing you nervous system. If she aswked you for that, awesome. If it was your idea, 99% chance she doesn't want to do that. Even if she said she does.Not very many women asre into it, in my experience, 1% maybe